Fabulous- not that you have this problem, it's that it is so much the point of the healing work we do here! There are many ways to approach this. I would presume that your "tanks" are empty. So I recommend that you receive a personal Whole Body Healing first, for that any practitioner that you feel a magnetic pull toward would be perfect. This will bring you out of "starvation" mode and allow you to be more receptive to learning. The next step then would be to schedule a "Goddess Guide Me" session. In this
hands-on session will learn about the woman's matrix, energy flow, pleasure path, etc. For instance- did you know that it takes a minimum of 20 minutes for a woman's energy field to Open to receive. If you over run this period then you are not only working "for not" but you are collapsing her energy in on itself. This leads to her lifetime of "ho hum" experiences that she is now stuck with because she does not know this herself. She comes to believe there is something wrong with the connection and has no idea what to do, especially if she is able to orgasm on her own. As you become a more masterful lover, she will naturally respond. This goes on the assumption that the rest of your relationship is loving. So let's get you in for a WBH session and go from there!